How To Raise Your Self Esteem
by Bronzilla on Jun.16, 2011, under Self Improvement
Many people in life would like to gain more confidence or to increase their self esteem. In this article, I give free tips on how to do this. I myself have managed to change my whole life by implementing the advice given. I hope it also proves beneficial for you.
I am Stephen Hill from England. I had many issues as I grew up from a child, through the teenage years, and finally to adulthood which had a damaging affect on my confidence levels. These included:
A bald patch on my head
A speech impediment known as a stutter
A weight problem, I was basically too fat
I am quite short at five foot two
Certain people I met would be quite nasty and would try to make fun of me. They would succeed as I would be very hurt from their comments, even though I tried to never show it.
These people were making my life a misery and by the age of twenty-two I had had enough. I decided I needed a big change in attitude and started to read books about life and about positive thinking etc.
These were the things I had to take on board:
It is not important what other people think of you, it is what you think that counts
You need to start to like yourself
There are various things about your person, you do not like but which you can not change. You therefore have to start accepting these things and realising that maybe there are other people in life who are more unfortunate than you.
You need to have respect for yourself
Do not accept second best in life
Be happy
I tried hard to implement this advice and even though it was not easy to change, I knew I had to. I basically live life to the full now and try not to worry about anything trivial.
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June 16th, 2011 on 3:39 pm
It all starts within. Being happy and satisfied with yourself and respecting yourself is the key to happiness in YOUR life and in your relationships. It’s surprising what a bit of self confidence can do for a person!
July 16th, 2011 on 12:33 pm
It’s sometimes hard to remember that we shouldn’t worry about the trivial things and just enjoy life… Well done on changing your outview.. It’s hard I know
August 6th, 2011 on 2:16 am
Thank you Debbie and this is true. People go mad because they get stuck on the little things that happends to them and they can’t move on in life.
Thanks for comming by and reading my blog Debbie. I will try to do another post. It has been a prblem for me to post on this blog lately but I will try. hope all is well with you and your family.